TRUE REPENTANCE

Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no
regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.
2 Corinthians 7:10

What does it mean to repent? When you or I wrong another person, or we
sin against God, do we simply say we are sorry and move on?
A few years ago I was involved in a business situation that taught me a
great lesson. A client severely wronged me and ultimately took our
company for $160,000. In a court of law, I probably would have won the
dispute. However, after I had already filed suit against the man, I
realized that there was one aspect of the matter that I was wrong about,
involving a third party that could no longer be held accountable. I
could not effectively resolve the matter without taking the first step
in owning the responsibility for my part in the matter.
I made a decision to drop the lawsuit. However, after calling my
attorney, I discovered the client had already filed a countersuit. This
made the situation even scarier. I was completely exposed if I dropped
my suit.
I was unable to reach the business owner because he would not return my
calls. I got his secretary on the line. "I want you to take this message
down and give it to your boss, word for word. Please do not change the
words at all. 'I have sinned against you. I know I do not deserve your
forgiveness, but I ask your forgiveness for filing the lawsuit against
you. You are no longer obligated to pay the balance you owe me if you
feel you do not owe it.' " The secretary knew me and the gravity of what
I was saying. She began to weep. She could not believe what she was
hearing.
A few hours later I received a call from this client. He said, "I
received your message. I accept your request and I forgive you." He
dropped his countersuit. A few days later, I went to see the man and had
dinner with him. He did not offer to pay any of the balance. It took
three years to pay the vendors related to this situation. It was
difficult because I knew he was not taking any responsibility for his
contribution to the problem. However, I knew I was to let go of it.  The
Lord was glorified in this situation and He provided for my needs.
Is there anyone you need to seek forgiveness from? Acknowledging our sin
is the first step. Humbling ourselves and taking actions to restore is
the next step.