We prayed
about it. We discussed it. My friend had one desire; I had a different one.
"Okay,
let's settle the issue the way the early Church settled matters when an
agreement could not be achieved. Let's flip a coin."
"You
must be joking!" my friend lamented.
"No,
the early Church cast lots often to determine a course of direction or even
select the disciple who would take Judas' place."
"Okay,"
my friend agreed.
We
flipped the coin and the matter was quickly settled.
In the
Old Testament there are many examples of casting lots for determining a
decision. We hear little of this method today. Most of us do not want to
release the decision process to this seemingly "flippant" process;
yet the Lord says, "The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision
is from the Lord" (Prov. 16:33).
Flipping
a coin is the equivalent to casting a lot. It removes our own opinions and
leaves the final outcome to the Lord. Pray before you take such an action. It
will surprise you who is willing to submit a decision to the Lord and who
isn't. It removes the element of control from both parties.
I believe
the Lord would first have us make decisions through agreement and continued
prayer for the decision. However, there are times when this approach can be the
quickest and simplest. It removes each person's temptation to lord it over the
other. Cast the lot and settle the dispute.